Chasing Footnotes by Lilia J. Don - Reclaim Your Authentic Self

CHASING FOOTNOTES

Where the story of your past meets the power of your True Self.

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Break free from the stories holding you back. This book is your practical guide to uncovering the authentic, resilient self you've always been.

Front cover for Chasing Footnotes
Back cover for Chasing Footnotes

Discover the Journey Within

"What if the story you've been telling yourself is the very thing that's holding you back? For years, you may have been shaped by inherited narratives, past experiences, and untrue beliefs about who you are. But beneath all of that, beyond the noise of expectations and self-doubt, your inner wisdom has always been there, waiting to be heard and set free. This journey isn't about becoming someone new - it's about returning to the truth of who you've always been! This is not just another book, it's a path back to yourself."

CHASING FOOTNOTES is more than just a book—it's an invitation to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and authentic living. Through practical wisdom and compassionate guidance, this book offers a roadmap to uncovering your true self beneath years of conditioning and expectations.

"Personal growth often requires us to let go of what no longer serves us. Don't be scared to let go of the known when it no longer serves you."

What You'll Discover

CHASING FOOTNOTES doesn't promise transformation—it offers opportunities to:

  • Uncover gateways to your authentic self beyond societal expectations
  • Explore how your thoughts and perceptions might shape your reality
  • Consider emotions as potential messengers rather than obstacles
  • Discover possibilities in the present moment instead of past or future
  • Examine where your boundaries might serve or limit you
  • Investigate the impact of your inner dialogue on your experience

"It's about taking action - whether it's starting a task, project, or workout - without waiting to feel 'ready' or be in the 'right' mindset. Because if we wait for the right mindset to begin, we'll end up doing very little and remain stagnant. The shift happens whilst you are in motion, not before it."

Remember: Every insight in these pages is simply an invitation. The journey—and any progress made along it—belongs solely to you.

Key Principles

CHASING FOOTNOTES offers doorways to transformation—opportunities that can guide you back to your authentic self. Each principle serves as an invitation rather than a prescription; a pathway you may choose to explore:

Discover Your True Self

An opportunity to peel back layers of conditioning and expectation to reveal the essence of who you've always been.

"You are capable of achieving absolutely anything that is real and aligned with the realm of possibility for your unique human experience. This doesn't mean you can become something you're not, like transforming into a different species or defying the laws of nature."

Create Your Own Reality

A chance to recognize how your thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions shape the world you experience—and how you might reshape it.

Use Emotions as Guidance

An invitation to transform your relationship with emotions, seeing them as messengers rather than obstacles.

Embrace Present Moment Awareness

A gateway to the power that exists only in the now—where all possibility resides.

"When you still the mind, you allow yourself to experience the present moment in its purest form - unfiltered and unadulterated by distractions or preconceived notions. This state of mental clarity reveals the essence of the now, free from the excesses of past regrets or future anxieties."

Establish Healthy Boundaries

An opening to define your own space while maintaining connection and compassion.

Master Your Inner Dialogue

A doorway to transforming the conversation you have with yourself, moment by moment.

...and many more transformative principles waiting to be discovered.

These principles aren't presented as guarantees, but rather as invitations to explore the depths of your own potential. The journey of reclaiming your authentic self is uniquely yours—a path illuminated by your own courage and curiosity. With each principle, you're offered a doorway, but only you can choose to step through it. You are far more capable than you've been led to believe, and within these pages, you'll find reflections of your own innate wisdom. Every experience becomes a teacher when approached with awareness, guiding you back to the truth of who you've always been.

Peek Inside: Table of Contents

  1. Opening Statements Page 1
  2. Everything is Energy Page 27
  3. Peeling Back the Layers Page 45
  4. A Metamorphosis Kind of Transformation Page 84
  5. Surrender to the Flow of Life Page 117
  6. Acceptance of All as It Is Page 133
  7. There is Only One Way to Eat an Elephant: One Bite at a Time Page 152
  8. Self-Dialogue Page 167
  9. Trial and Refinement Page 183
  10. Mapping Your Pathway, with Purpose Page 195
  11. Building Lasting Habits Page 210
  12. Abundance Starts from Within Page 224
  13. Don't Carry What Isn't Yours to Carry Page 239
  14. Conclusion Page 250
  15. i. Key Principles of Chasing Footnotes Page 252
  16. ii. About the Author Page 263
  17. iii. Acknowledgements Page 264

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Chasing Footnotes about?

Chasing Footnotes is a thought-provoking exploration of how our personal histories—especially the subtle, often-overlooked details—shape who we become. It challenges readers to move beyond surface-level understanding and examine the deeper patterns, beliefs, and inherited narratives that quietly influence their lives.

This book isn't about revisiting the past for its own sake—it's about reclaiming authorship. It offers a framework for recognizing what truly drives you, so you can move forward with clarity, alignment, and purpose.

Is this a memoir or a self-help book?

Neither, in the traditional sense. While Chasing Footnotes includes personal moments, they are used purposefully—to illuminate core insights rather than to chronicle a life. The heart of the book lies in its clear-eyed analysis, distilled experience, and hard-won inner knowings.

This is a book for the thinking seeker—for those who want more than vague inspiration. It's an invitation to examine the patterns beneath your story, question inherited beliefs, and reconnect with what is quietly, powerfully true. Each chapter is both a mirror and a guide—designed to challenge, clarify, and deepen your understanding of yourself.

Who is this book for?

This book is for those who are done skimming the surface of their lives. It's for thinkers, feelers, and seekers—people who want to make sense of their inner world with precision and depth. Whether you're navigating a transition, breaking generational patterns, or simply craving a more authentic way of living, Chasing Footnotes offers insight and direction.

If you've ever sensed that there's more to your story—and you're ready to look honestly at what lies beneath—this book was written with you in mind.

Where can I buy the book?

Chasing Footnotes is available on Amazon in paperback, hardcover and Kindle formats.

Why did you choose to self-publish?

As an intellectual property lawyer, I understand the weight that comes with branding, titles, and so-called prestige. But I'm not driven by external stamps of approval—I'm driven by truth, clarity, and real connection. I chose to self-publish because this book wasn't written for gatekeepers. It was written for people—for those who can see beyond the label, beyond the platform, and into the substance of the message.

Self-publishing gave me the freedom to protect the integrity of the work, to move on my own terms, and to speak directly to the reader without dilution or delay. This is a book for those who want something real—not packaged perfection, but honest insight that meets them where they are.

Will there be an audiobook version?

Possibly! An audiobook version will be considered based on demand.

Do you offer coaching, workshops, or talks based on the book's themes?

Very selectively. While I occasionally offer talks, workshops, or one-on-one guidance, I do so with great intention. My focus is not on scaling or mass engagement, but on meaningful connection—working with those who are truly ready to engage with their inner world in a deep and honest way.

If the themes in Chasing Footnotes resonate with where you are, and you feel called to explore further, you're welcome to reach out through the contact page. I'm open to aligned opportunities where depth, integrity, and presence are the shared ground.

Can I invite you to speak at my event or podcast?

Yes—if the conversation is rooted in authenticity, depth, and a genuine desire to explore the human experience, I'd be glad to consider it. I'm drawn to spaces where real dialogue is valued over performance, and where ideas can unfold with honesty and nuance.

If you feel there's a meaningful fit, please reach out via the contact page with a few details. I welcome aligned invitations and thoughtful collaborations.

How can I stay connected and hear more from you?

You can subscribe to my newsletter for updates, reflections, and behind-the-scenes musings. You can also follow me on Instagram @chasing_footnotes for inspiration and insights.

What inspired the title Chasing Footnotes?

Chasing Footnotes is a metaphorical phrase that speaks to the often-unseen threads running through our lives—the overlooked moments, inherited beliefs, quiet longings, and silenced truths that shape us in ways we don't always realize. Just like footnotes in a book, these elements aren't found in the main narrative—they live in the margins, offering context, nuance, and meaning if we choose to look closer.

The title reflects an intellectual and emotional journey—an ongoing search for deeper understanding. It invites the reader to become a kind of seeker, to turn toward what's subtle or hidden in their own story, and in doing so, uncover the richness and power of what truly defines them. It's about finding significance in what may not be immediately visible—and allowing that deeper truth to guide you toward greater authenticity, healing, and self-creation.

What inspired you to write Chasing Footnotes?

This book was born not from ambition, but from a quiet, undeniable knowing—an inner summons that arrived swiftly and with absolute clarity. It wasn't something I pondered or debated. When the call came, I recognized it instantly and responded without hesitation. There was no room for doubt—only a deep, anchored sense that this was what I was meant to do.

Chasing Footnotes emerged from years of reflection, growth, and integration—yet when the moment came to write, it moved through me with rare urgency and ease. I felt a profound responsibility to share what I had come to understand—not just for the sake of storytelling, but in service of those walking their own path of becoming.

This book is an offering—an invitation to look beyond the visible, into the hidden threads of our personal narratives. My vision is to help others live more honestly, love more openly, and reconnect with the quiet but powerful truth of who they really are.

About the Author

Photo of the author, Lilia J. Don

Lilia J. Don

A truth seeker committed to living an authentic life, I've navigated a transformative path guided by dignity, honesty, and self-awareness. Born in Bulgaria in 1982, I journeyed through South Africa in my teens before finding home in Australia by the end of 2023.

As a commercial and intellectual property lawyer licensed in South Africa and Australia, I blend a dynamic professional career with a profound commitment to personal growth. My journey began by confronting internalized expectations and untrue belief systems that once constrained my spirit. Through deep introspection, I discovered the transformative power of self-awareness and emotional clarity, uncovering a path to personal empowerment that now defines my professional and personal mission.

Embracing multiple roles - a wife, mother to two daughters, sister, daughter, and friend - I've learned to cherish the connections that illuminate my path. Driven by a passionate commitment to personal transformation, I strive to offer guidance to those who wish to break free from limiting beliefs and emotional stagnation.

Through my writing and work, I aim to be a beacon of hope for those ready to reclaim their truth, transcend past constraints, and step into a life of profound clarity, presence, and fulfillment.

"The photo I chose for the back of my book isn't just any picture—it's me, the version of myself that my inner child recognizes. Stripped of titles, labels, and expectations, it's a reflection of the essence that has always been there. Because at the core of it all, beyond the noise of the world, we are who we've always been—curious, resilient, and full of possibility."

Childhood photo of author Lilia J. Don

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